my new husband is got behind in CS Payments to his ex and let her new husband adopt his son and a daughter that wasn't even his although his name was on the birth certificate. she has attached his check for payments of few months. when does it stop? it is bringing him down once again and his ex wife sent out "Adoption Announcements" to his previous workplace, she also sent them to his family, friends etc. isn't this all some type of defamation? thanks for any opinion!