I don't know what to do. I'm an E5 with 2 1/2 years of flawless service. I deployed once to Iraq, even though the doctor advised against it for a high-risk pregnancy (my wife's). My then-chain-of-command told us both that I had to go. Now, we are facing another deployment. Before this even came up, my wife was facing extreme emotional issues. She was kidnapped (cooerced) and raped by her boyfriend over 8 years ago, and has only recently started dealing with the issues. She refused therapy because the last one tried to commit her, and suggested she move in with the rapist in order to give the resulting child (her oldest) a father. She has finally started going and is diagnosed depressed and bipolar, and has two suicide attempts. Sometimes, she can't even care for our children.
Today, I have the BG CSM yelling at me telling me that he might put me out of the army because I'm on rear detatchment to deal with this. He said that the doesn't like me, and is suspicious.
I think that he's just resentful because he had to fight and fight to pull me from my last unit, and I have been doing an additional duty that is not my MOS. He says that I should owe most of my enlistment bonus back.
Can he do this?

Thank you for your thread swelp... needadvice will reply to your queries soon.

Thank you. I know I need to do something about this, but don't know what to tell my wife without sending her into an episode... /